Agony Aunt
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I Love a Married Man
I love a married man.
There are two ways you can end up being invited to get involved with a married guy. Which way the guy approaches you makes a difference! If you are online he is a player, he is on here chatting and looking regularly and he has tried it on with other women before you. He may tell you that you have a very pretty name or whatever he thinks it will take to get you to soften and be less guarded and more interested, but he is simply looking to meet a woman and you will do. Many of these men have admitted to me that they regularly pay prostitutes for sex and the reason they look on here to meet is because then the meets would not cost them anything, so they have a lot of reason to hope you are interested.
They may tell you that they and their wife do not talk or that they never make love are just there because of the children, but that is their problem - if it is true - and they should sort it out, not expect you to sit in the wings waiting to cheer them up when they can escape. It is usually the mistress who would end up waiting for calls and meets and being all alone at Christmas. One reason that the married guy often tries to get it together with a married woman - he assumes then that he is guaranteed discretion and that she is as desperate for the whole situation as he is and will not start nagging him to leave his wife or moan when he is not there at Christmas time! But a sexy, young or good looking married lady can easily get a single guy who is more available to see her when it suits her.
The other way to meet him is where you work, at a club, at a bar or another normal place in the real World, where he is not looking to meet up and somehow you are talking and it just clicks. At least that way you know he is not looking out for meets every day. But unless you just fancy them and want them temporarily and part time can do it without getting emotionally involved or wanting something long term you should still ask yourself if there is any point to this because even if he promises to leave his spouse to be with you he may break that promise or do the same to you in the future. If you get into a relationship with him and he has a wife and you he has no reason to leave and change things, he has the best of both Worlds. I love a married man.
Yes there are men who are already spoken for who genuinely are unhappy and genuinely wish they could leave and be with someone else but most men who are looking or wanting to meet up are just after sex and the ones that are unhappy at home have no right to expect any woman to be lonely and keep secrets for him.
The guys who are bored at home are often quite immature and no good at long term relationships so in the unlikely event they leave to be with you it will only last until they get bored again or meet another woman who is younger, sexier or prettier.
You already know that they have made promises to their wife and are willing to break them so they would make and break promises to you too.
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