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How to Attract a Man
How to attract a man - An article by relationship expert and agony aunt Charlotte Craig.
They used to say that the way to a man's heart was through his stomach. Quite funny really as most women now, especially the young ones, cannot cook at all. They can barely boil an egg and just stuck a ready made dinner in the microwave. Just as well then that it was not true. Let me tell you the way to get and keep a man once you know the man you want....
1. Looking good! No matter how wonderful and sexy you are he does not know that if he cannot see it. Men go by looks more than anything. Sadly many men would rather be with a beautiful and attractive but stupid woman than a woman who is intelligent, well read, nice, kind, honest but ugly. Most men's idea of good looks is you looking like a girl and not like a man. 90% of men prefer long hair. 75% of men prefer large breasts. 70% prefer a small waist and slim figure. Just as most prefer you to do your nails nice, wear some jewellery, wear some make up and not to wear glasses.
2. Make him the most important person in your life. Make him feel very special. But balance this with you being yourself and treating yourself as being special too. So when you are with him you make a fuss of him and you are good company but you do not sit around waiting for him to turn up and cancel other things when it suits him. He has to see how wonderful YOU are without it all being too easy for him and you becoming a doormat. Then he realises that you are worth making an effort for. Do not make him any promises or commitments until he has definitely made them to you. Do not tell him you love him until he has said those things to you. Otherwise he will spend time with you but he will want it all easy and on his terms and he will get all the pleasure and you will get all of the worries and heartaches. You can get, woo and win the person you want. How to attract a man.
It is all very well attracting a man to you but he has to be the right one. Make sure that the guy you are keen on is worth your time before you make these big efforts.
Then if he is worth the effort make sure that you keep him too. If the guy has problems - i.e. lazy and unemployed, terrible with money, takes drugs, do not think you can change him just move on to one that does not have any problems and issues in the first place. There are millions or guys out there waiting to meet someone like you who have no problems!
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