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Cougar dating. Another one of those modern sayings that is catching on. Have you heard of chubby chasers? Men and women who prefer the larger partner? Now we have toy boys being seen as the natural choice and those who prefer to go out with a modern, mature woman. Not to be confused with a gold digger going out with a sugar daddy!

Usually the toy boy offers a fit, lean, attractive and healthy body and in return he wants a female who is also fit and healthy but older with more experience, especially with men and sex. Strictly speaking though not just any woman can class herself as a cougar. A true one is experienced at sex, enjoys sex, attractive, sexy, modern, broadminded, uninhibited and fun. She is far more likely to hold down a very well paid career than be unemployed, she dresses well, she has some class and sophistication. An old soak laying on a park bench, a single mum who has let herself go and dresses very scruffy and spends all day with a baby are not cougars simply because they are older. The term is not just about age but also about attitude and personality. The term is attached to an animal because these women are seen to prey on or need younger men as lovers and they find it easy to attract men as lovers. As such they have high expectations. Not for them a quick fumble in the back of a guy's car. They expect a good night out, some romance, flowers maybe, attention and respect. They love sex but they can be fussy about whbo with without going without. They know how to have fun and they are popular. They are not aging slappers, they have a lot to offer. Madonna, Joan Collins, Cher and Barbara Streisand are cougars. Women who can get a young man based on their looks, personality, attitude, not just their fame and money. 

Advice columns are full of stories of women who have thought they were one and gone with a younger guy, then been fleeced of their money or found out he is married. The real thing has a lot to offer and is always in control. The ladies forum on this site has postings about such relationships and happenings, many of them where the woman has regretted meeting the man and then found the price was too dear.

Any guy who gets it into his head that he wants to date an older woman should be warned. They are fussy, she dates any man she wants. She will not want a guy who cannot take her out properly, or who is unattractive, inattentive, boring or stupid. Yes the sex is important but if he is just after sex she will fall off her chair laughing. He should also be able to cook her a good meal, write her a love poem, be a great conversationalist and be able to look after her other needs. The young student who lives in a tatty bedsit is not going to get a cougar. She is not going to slum it and make do with a tatty bedsit when she can get guys who have a lovely house and a fast car. It might not last, it probably will not, but it will be a lot of fun and if you really love it and her and can offer her as much as she offers you then it could last a long time. But do not let yourself go to seed. You will soon be replaced if you do.

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Worded by Charlotte Craig A.A.A