Age gap relationship. There are a lot of famous cases where the emphasis is put on how old they are. We also tend to see it as something where the man is usually older than the woman and quite often the man is providing money, material possessions, financial security or gifts in return for "love" and sex. He may want a trophy woman to show off when he goes out and she might want a sugar daddy who looks after her in return.
But age gaps are here to stay and are becoming more and more the norm and very popular both with males and females.
But there are also relationships where one is older than the other where the the woman prefers a younger man because she wants a guy who is healthy, fit, fun, not old fashioned and not boring. She is seeking this man out for fun and sex and is either not interested in or not needing a man for financial security, gifts and material security. A woman who seeks out a younger man for fun and a relationship is often called a cougar and the man she seeks is often called a toy boy. She is unlikely to want to marry him or even live with him or to want him when he starts to lose hs looks or fitness! It is a temporary thing to her and when the man is older he loses his appeal. All agony auntys will tell you that most women want more than brawn in their men.
Some young men love the idea of dating an older woman. Some of them even lust after the idea of going with a very old woman and some prefer a chubby one, a wrinkly one, an ugly one, but they all seek out confidence and maturity in their women. Where these men usually go wrong is in forgetting that if the only thing they offer the woman is sex they are unlikely to get a mature, experienced, sexy, fussy older woman with confidence wanting such a relationship. Yes the woman does want great sex and lots of if, but she also needs a guy who can have an intelligent chat with her, who takes her out and treats her properly. A relationship should be about both people people pleasing each other and being there for each other.
In some cases the younger man seeks a mummy figure and some even advertise on dating sites saying they want a mum! Others ask for an aunty or a grandma and are only interested in a very big difference! Others seek out a dominant woman who will make their decisions for them and boss them about. But again, if all they offer is their willingless to allow her to pleasure him she can do better than that because he is really wanting to use her to make him happy and many prostitutes would charge a lot for just a few hours of this.
The best couples are based on two people who are both quite mature and experienced in life - despite their age - where the younger one has an old head on young shoulders and despite their diference in years they have a lot in common. When one is very young and the older at least 15 years older it is unlikely to last. Whereas if one is about 30 or older and the other 15 years older that has far more chance of working.
Age gap relationship.
by Charlotte Craig
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