Affairs with married men. Any woman who is contemplating getting into a relationship with a married man should read this. It is written by a woman who has counselled, listened to and advised hundreds of women who are victims of married men who cheat. Either they were married to the guy, living with him, thinking they were in a monogomous and serious relationship with him OR they were the other woman or one of the other women that he cheated with. All of them have lived to regret knowing him although some move onto forgiving him and continuing a relationship with him.
There are two types of married guy who want an extra marital relationship. One seems to be fairly happy with his partner and his lot in life and then quite by accident he bumps into someone that he gets along with - perhaps at work - and it begins as just chatting, then friendship, then much more. These men are not necessarily serial cheats or serial liars but they must have been feeling lonely or lacking something in their life when it happened.
The other type and the worst type are the type you find looking for one night stands, flings, casual sex and affairs. They are not interested in their partner as a person and do not really care about the person or people they want to meet up with in secret. To them it is all about the thrill of the chase, the buzz of a secret, the sex itself. Some of them quite rightly realise that a single woman would not really bother with such a deal so they aim for a married woman. They are not looking to what will happen in five years or even just one year, nor do they think they will be found out. Another reason they tend to go for married women is because they assume the woman will need to be careful about being found out herself.
Getting into a relationship with a married man may seem a good idea at the time but it rarely turns out that way. Very few of these men actually leave their partner to be with the other woman, no matter what they promise. Sometimes they genuinely want to but they find that practical issues, finances and other complications get in the way. Unless you like to live on your own and spend a lot of time on your own, doing your own thing, you are better off with a single guy. A good looking or sexy married woman can also easily get a single guy, which is far more beneficial to her than a married one. At least he can make sure that he is available to see her when she can escape and be with him. And he should be able to invite her back to his place.
Affairs with married men by Charlotte Craig.
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