Advice on Love

Advice on love. This is the most popular subject we get asked about. Why? Because it is over these things that they get upset and confused and then emotionally in a state. 99% of the mail we get here from clients asking for help is about their relationships, people they care about, sometimes where they care but the people do not care back, which is maybe why there is a problem. Unrequited feelings where we feel very strongly for someone and they care very little or nothing for us hurts a lot, it is probably the worst sort of pain one can feel. It also knocks your confidence in yourself because you wonder why they do not feel the same.Sometimes you try to change things, you look for ways to get them more interested or keen when maybe it would be better to simply accept that it will not work and move on. You can change your looks, the way you behave, what you do and many things about you in the hope of becoming what the other person wants but surely they should want the real you not someone you pretend to be.

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General advice on relationships -

For women - Never bother dating a married man or guys who already have a partner. He may be totally miserable with his wife and there may be genuine reasons as to why he has to stay (at least temporarily) but that is not your problem and no reason for you to live a lonely half life living in the shadows where you have to rely on him to keep promises. He made promises to his wife once and he broke those. Make sure you find out all about him before you go to bed with him or fall for him. Anyone can be wise after the event. Maybe being single does suck and it is not much fun but it is more fun than being with someone who is unsuitable or who is just using you or messing you around.

For men - If you are unhappy at home with your wife with a bad or no sex life then sort it out or get a divorce or separation. No woman who feels confident in herself and values herself and who does not have issues of her own would go out with a married guy. And surely you deserve better than a woman who lacks confidence and has issues? Advice on love.

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